Remembering Anita O'Day on her birthday (Oct 18, 1919 - Nov 23, 2006, the self-proclaimed "song stylist" widely admired for her sense of rhythm and dynamics, and her early big band appearances that shattered the traditional image of the "girl singer". Refusing to pander to any female stereotype, O'Day presented herself as a "hip" jazz musician, wearing a band jacket and skirt as opposed to an evening gown. She changed her surname from Colton to O'Day, pig Latin for "dough", slang for money. O'Da