Abbie (M is for Mama) on Instagram: "I thought I cared about certain non-essentials a potential spouse might have before I actually got married. And now? I couldn’t care less. (And the preferences that remain have shifted.) Bc true joy comes from letting go of a list of hypothetical druthers in favor of the actual living breathing human being God has given you to love well every day. Knowing that, every time I craned my neck to see if he were still waiting for me to board, he’d be there til I wa