Janelle Marie on Instagram: "You’re not going to like this, but that’s okay. If your adult kids or child-in-law told you that something you’re doing was hurtful or upsetting to them but you continued, that was you saying “I don’t care about your needs” I know that you think they were overreacting, or too sensitive, or not respecting their elders but when you continued the behavior and they didn’t immediately stop seeing you, that was them “putting in work” for the relationship. When they escalat